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Legislative update: The Biden Administration's National Strategy on Gender Equity and Equality

On October 22nd, the Biden-Harris Administration issued the first-ever national gender strategy to advance the full participation of all people – including women and girls – in the United States and around the world. The National Strategy on Gender Equity and Equality incorporates female genital cutting (FGC) as a form of gender-based violence needing attention, clearly labeling it a “human rights abuse” and planning several courses of action to work towards ending it.

 

The Strategy recognizes that millions of women and girls are at risk of FGC, and that these human rights abuses occur domestically and abroad, which poses a global security issue. he Administration plans to “collaborate with state officials to prevent and address harmful practices that undermine human rights,” and “work with a broad array of leaders to promote programs that address harmful practices that undermine human rights.” Sahiyo commends the Biden-Harris Administration's important acknowledgement of this harmful practice, and looks forward to seeing how the strategy will be implemented through collaboration with domestic and international leaders to create change.

Sahiyo staff spotlight: Editorial coordinator Rachel Wine

Rachel is a graduate student at Georgetown University, working towards her Master’s of Science in Global Health with a focus on health equity. In 2020, she earned her BSPH at Tulane University, where she double-majored in public health and anthropology with a minor in international development. Her passion lies at the intersection of activism and storytelling, and she loves supporting Sahiyo’s work of elevating survivors’ voices for the empowerment of women everywhere.

When and how did you first get involved with Sahiyo?

I first started working with Sahiyo in September of 2021. I had learned about the incredible work Sahiyo was doing from another graduate of my Master’s program, who had also worked with Sahiyo, and found myself extremely drawn to Sahiyo’s work and mission.

What does your work with Sahiyo involve?

As editorial coordinator, a big part of my work is supporting survivors and allies in developing their stories into blog posts. I love being a part of a process that amplifies these voices, and watching the exploration of their thoughts, feelings, and opinions on their experience. I also work to create the monthly newsletter, which updates our many subscribers on Sahiyo’s activities over the past month!

How has your involvement with Sahiyo impacted your life?

Coming from a public health background, I saw FGC handled as a “cultural practice” that Westerners didn’t have the lens to understand. In fact, during one of my maternal and child health classes, a professor told us that we couldn’t judge the practice because it was based on cultural norms and values different from ours. I didn’t really question this, until I interviewed at Sahiyo. Since beginning my work here, exposure to survivors’ stories and the expertise of Sahiyo’s co-founders has helped me realize that, although FGC may be based in cultural or religious norms, this doesn’t erase its undeniable roots in gender violence. And while FGC is also a pervasive issue in the West, there are many cultural norms that originate in Western societies, like the over-sexualization of the female body in the media, that are harmful to young women and girls; however, I don’t think anyone would negate the harm caused by this just because it’s tied to “cultural norms.” This realization really forced me to take a step back and re-examine the way I view the world in many ways.

What words of wisdom would you like to share with others who may be interested in supporting Sahiyo and the movement against FGC?

Every act of violence against women is interconnected. Though I come from a community that does not practice FGC, it is still my job to call out this form of gender violence that affects women around the world; ending violence that is ingrained in cultural or religious norms, especially in cultures and religions that are not mine, is my fight. Intersectional feminism is the only way to achieve liberation of all women.

Sahiyo participates in Massachusetts Healthy Youth Consortium

On November 1st Sahiyo partnered with The Massachusetts Healthy Youth Consortium (MAHYC) to hold a training for K-12 teachers about the importance of using education as a means of preventing female genital cutting (FGC) and how they can become advocates against this practice. The goal of MAHYC is for educators, health professionals, policymakers, and other advocates to work collaboratively towards helping to pass The Healthy Youth Act which would ensure that comprehensive curricula are taught in public schools that choose to offer sex education. Massachusetts ranks 12th in the nation for at-risk populations, with nearly 15,000 girls at risk, with the largest at-risk areas being Boston, Newton, and Cambridge. FGC is often rooted in secrecy and isolation, and girls at risk are often taught never to speak of what they experienced. Sahiyo believes that education can be a powerful tool to break this silence and bring some clarity to the myths surrounding female genital cutting.

Watch the training here.

Upcoming Webinar: Moving Towards Sexual Pleasure and Emotional Healing Part 2

By Amela Tokić

Last October, Sahiyo hosted a webinar called Moving Towards Sexual Pleasure and Emotional Healing After Female Genital Cutting. This provided an opportunity to hear from three inspirational speakers: psychotherapist and author Farzana Doctor, activist Sarian Karim-Kamara, and psychotherapist Joanna Vergoth, on female genital cutting (FGC), sexuality and its connection to mental health. The webinar jump-started an important discussion on ways survivors can begin to move towards their own sexual pleasure and emotional healing after FGC. 

Sahiyo didn’t hesitate to delve into difficult and taboo subjects surrounding FGC, such as psycho-social and mental impacts of FGC, and provided survivors and non-survivors a space to better understand the process of sexual and emotional healing after FGC.

Coming this November, Sahiyo will be hosting a second part to the webinar: Moving Towards Sexual Pleasure and Emotional Healing After Female Genital Cutting Part 2. The webinar will dive deeper into these topics with three new expert panelists: 

  • Nazneen Vasi, pelvic floor therapist and founder of Body Harmony Physical Therapy.
  • Manal Omar, founder of Across Red Lines,
  • Haddi Ceesay, health educator and consultant for HEART

Register for the event here: https://bit.ly/MovingFurther 

The event is open to anyone who wishes to attend.

Watch the recording of the first webinar

Read the transcript of the first webinar

Read the blog post for the first webinar

Read answers to questions from the first webinar

The event is sponsored by Sahiyo.

પ્રિય માસી: એક ટ્રૉમા થેરાપિસ્ટ સાથે તમને વાત કરવાની જરૂર છે

પ્રિય માસી એ એક કોલમ છે, જે સેક્સ અને સંબંધ વિષેની એવી બધી બાબતો પર ભાર મૂકે છે, જેને પૂછવામાં તમને ડર લાગતો હોય! આ કોલમ સહિયો અને WeSpeakOut વચ્ચેની એક ભાગીદારી છે. તે આપણા બધા માટે છે, જેમને ફીમેલ જેનિટલ કટિંગ (એફ.જી.સી.) અથવા ખતના અને તેની આપણા શરીર, મન, સેક્સ્યુઆલિટી અને સંબંધો પર કેવી અસર પડે છે તે વિષે પ્રશ્નો હોય. બોહરીઓમાં, માસી એટલે તમારી મમ્મીની બહેન. અમે તમને અહિયાં તમારા પ્રશ્નો મોકલવા માટે આવકારીયે છીએ. જો તમને કોઇ સંકોચ થાય તો, મહેરબાની કરીને ઉપનામનો ઉપયોગ કરી શકો છો (તમારું સાચું નામ વાપર્યા વિના).

પ્રિય માસી,

હું 26 વર્ષની છું અને હું અત્યાર સુધી ત્રણ સંબંધોમાં રહી છું (બે મરદ અને હાલમાં એક મહિલા સાથે). મને ગાઢ સંબંધ પસંદ છે, પરંતુ ઘણીવાર પેનિટ્રેશન (કોઇપણ પ્રકારનું) તકલીફ આપે છે. મેં ઘણીવાર સેક્સ કરવાનું જ ટાળ્યું છે અને તેના કારણે મારા સંબંધોમાં સમસ્યાઓ આવી છે. મેં ડૉક્ટરને બતાવ્યું હતું, પરંતુ તેમણે કહ્યું કે મારું ‘ગુપ્ત અંગ’ બરાબર છે તેમાં કોઇ સમસ્યા નથી, પરંતુ હું અસાધારણ મેહસુસ કરું છું.

મારું ખતના કરવામાં આવ્યું હતું અને મને લાગે છે કે મને તેની અસર થઇ હશે. પરંતુ તેમણે ફક્ત  મારૂં ક્લિટોરલ હૂડ કાપ્યું હતું – તેમણે મારા યોની ને કોઇ નુકશાન પહોંચાડ્યું નહોતું, બરાબર?

- ડરેલી ફાતિમા

 

પ્રિય ફાતિમા,

સૌ પહેલાં – તમે એ સમજી લો કે તમે જે બધી વાત કરી રહ્યાં છો તે એક સામાન્ય બાબત છે, કોઇ અસામાન્ય બાબત નથી.

પેનિટ્રેટિવ સેક્સમાં તકલીફ થવાના પાછળ ઘણા કારણો છે, જેમાં હોર્મોનને કારણે ત્વચા સુકાઇ જવી, વજાઇનલ ઇન્ફેક્શનો, ઇજાઓ અને પેલ્વિક ઇન્ફ્લેમેટરી ડિસીઝ, ફાઇબ્રોઇડ્સ અથવા એન્ડોમેટ્રિઓસિસ જેવી સ્થિતિઓ સમાવિષ્ટ છે.

તકલીફ થવા પાછળના બીજા સામાન્ય કારણો છે વજાઇનિસ્મસ (જેમાં પેનિટ્રેશન સમયે વજાઇનલ અથવા પેલ્વિક ફ્લોરના મસલ સંકોચાય છે અથવા દબાય છે) અથવા વેસ્ટિબ્યુલર વલ્વિટિસ (વજાઇનાના ઓપનિંગ આસપાસની નસોમાં બળતરા થવી). આ બાબતો ટ્રૉમા સાથે સંકળાયેલ હોય શકે છે. આ બાબત વિષે વધુ આગળ વાત કરીશું.

હું ભલામણ કરું છું કે તમે બીજી એક ડૉક્ટરનો અભિપ્રાય લઇ જુઓ. ઘણા ડૉક્ટરો સેક્સ્યુઆલિટીની બાબતમાં નિખાલસ હોતા નથી અને તેના પરિણામે તેઓ તેમના મૂલ્યાંકન પૂરતા ઉંડાણપૂર્વક કરતા નથી. એવા કોઇ ડૉક્ટરને મળો જેમને સેક્સ સંબંધી મુશ્કેલીઓનો અનુભવ ધરાવતા હોય. આ મુદ્દા વિષે વધુ જાણવા માટે હું Episode One of the Bodies Podcast ને સાંભળવાની ભારપૂર્વક ભલામણ કરું છું.

ખતના અને તમારી પીડા વચ્ચેની લિંક સંબંધી તમારા પ્રશ્નની વાત કરીએ તો, ખતનામાં વજાઇનાને બદલે ક્લિટોરલ હૂડને અને ક્યારે ક્લિટોરિસને પણ કટ કરવાનું સમાવિષ્ટ છે. તેમ છતાં, એવા સંશોધન છે જે સૂચવે છે કે આ કટની સેક્સ્યુઆલિટી પર અસર થાય છે: વર્ષ 2017માં સહિયો દ્વારા કરવામાં આવેલા એક સર્વેમાં 35% ઉત્તરદાતાઓએ જણાવ્યું હતું કે ખતના ની તેમના સેક્સ જીવન પર અસર પડી હતી, 87% લોકોએ એવું મેહસુસ કર્યું હતું કે તેની તેમના પર નકારાત્મક અસર પડી હતી. વર્ષ 2018ના WeSpeakOutના અભ્યાસમાં આશરે 33% ઉત્તરદાતાઓએ તેવી જ પ્રતિક્રિયા આપી હતી. તેમાં પીડા, ટ્રિગર અને ટ્રૉમાનું વર્ણન કરતા કેટલાક પ્રશ્નો (પેજ 47-60)ને વાંચવાની હું ભારપૂર્વક ભલામણ કરું છું – તે તમારી સમસ્યા સાથે સુસંગત હોય શકે છે.

ટ્રૉમા એ આ અનુભવનો સામનો કરવાની આપણી ક્ષમતા અને સમજને કચડી નાખતી માનસિક તણાવવાળી આ ઘટનાનું એક પરિણામ છે. મોટા ભાગના સર્વાઇવરો જણાવે છે કે ખતના એ એક માનસિક તણાવવાળો, ગૂંચવણભર્યો અને પીડાદાયક અનુભવ છે જેમાં ક્યારેક ઇનકાર, આ બાબત માટે આપણે પોતે જ જવાબદાર હોવાનો વિશ્વાસ અપાવવો અથવા આપણાં વડિલો, ભરોસાપાત્ર સંબંધીઓ દ્વારા ખોટું બોલવું એ નોંધપાત્ર રીતે સમાવિષ્ટ હોય છે.

હું કહીશ કે ખતના એ ટ્રૉમાની વ્યાખ્યામાં ફિટ થાય છે.

આપણાં મન અને શરીર ક્યારેક પરોક્ષ અથવા ગૂંચવણભરી રીતે ટ્રૉમાને પકડી રાખે છે. મારો કહેવાનો અર્થ શું છે તે જાણવા માટે આ કોમિકને જુઓ. મને લાગે છે કે આપણાં ગુપ્તઅંગ માં ખતનાને લીધે તાણ આવી શકે છે. આ રીતે ખતનાએ તમારા પર અસર કરી છે કે કેમ તે જાણવા માટે ટ્રૉમાનો અનુભવ ધરાવતા થેરાપિસ્ટ સાથે વાત કરો.

ફાતિમા, હું તમને જણાવવા માંગુ છું કે આ સમસ્યામાંથી બહાર નીકળવું અને સાજા થવું સંભવ છે. તમને આનંદદાયક સેક્સવાળુ જીવન જીવવાનો પૂરો અધિકાર છે!

- માસી

 

માસી ઉર્ફ ફરઝાના ડૉક્ટર

ફરઝાના એ એક નોવેલિસ્ટ અને પ્રાઇવેટ પ્રક્ટિસમાં સાયકોથેરાપિસ્ટ છે. તેણી WeSpeakOut અને ‘એન્ડ એફ.જી.એમ./સી. કેનેડા નેટવર્ક’ની એક સ્થાપક સભ્ય છે. તેણીને સંબંધો અને સેક્સ્યુઆલિટી વિષે વાત કરવી ગમે છે! તેણી વિષે તમે www.farzanadoctor.com પરથી વધુ માહિતી મેળવી શકો છો.

તેમની નવી નોવેલ સેવનને અહીં ઑર્ડર કરો, જેમાં દાઉદી બોહરા સમાજના સંદર્ભમાં બૈરાઓના સંબંધો, સેક્સ્યુઆલિટી, બેવફાઇ વિષે વાત કરવામાં આવી છે.

ઘોષણા: ફરઝાના સંપૂર્ણ રીતે સારી સલાહ આપતી હોય, તે છતાં આ કોલમ દરેક વ્યક્તિની અંગત ચિંતાઓનું સંબોધન કરશે નહીં અને તેનો વ્યાવસાયિક મેડિકલ અથવા સાયકોલોજિકલ સંભાળની અવેજી રૂપે ઉપયોગ કરવામાં આવવો જોઇએ નહીં.

 

Read the English version here, and the Hindi version here.

Sahiyo partners with FAWCO to lead an educational webinar on Female Genital Mutilation/Cutting in the United States

By Beth Fotheringham

On the 16th of September, the FAWCO Target Team collaborated with Sahiyo for an educational webinar about FGM/C in the United States. The webinar sought to highlight the essential work Sahiyo does in their work to end FGC and support survivors.

At the start of the webinar, Sahiyo co-founder and U.S. Executive Director Mariya Taher  provided context with her own expertise on both ‘khatna’ and the Dawoodi Bohras, a community that partakes in the  harmful practice of FGM/C. Through her own journey of speaking out as a survivor, she recognised the need for an organised forum within practicing communities, as well as the individual and collective benefits of creating positive social change through empowerment. It was evident that this had informed Sahiyo’s own unique approach to supporting survivors and raising awareness, which centres on storytelling. 

Mariya proceeded to clarify the various terminologies used in talking about female genital cutting (FGC), as well as the different types of the practice; she deftly outlined why Sahiyo uses ‘cutting’ instead of ‘mutilation,’ while respecting the right of survivors to choose how to define and describe their own experiences. 

She unflinchingly laid out the fact that 500,000+ women and girls are estimated to be living with, or at risk of, FGM/C in the US. This was especially shocking for me to learn, due to so much of the discourse surrounding FGC focusing on cases in Africa or “developing” countries, and evidence of such practices being greatly underreported in the Western world. This figure was made even more impactful when Mariya further deconstructed the statistic. She posited that this is most likely an under-representation, as it does not include any diasporic communities from countries not included within the 32 countries studied by UNICEF. 

For example, the Bohra community, who do practice FGC, are not counted in this statistic, nor are most other Asian countries where evidence of FGC exists. The most recent study into FGC prevalence found evidence of FGC in 92 countries worldwide, strongly suggesting that the statistic from the United States is a considerable underestimate. Through the webinar, we learned that there are current efforts within the US by the Center for Disease Control and Prevent (CDC) to capture more accurate data, which sounded promising, but that data collection is in its early stages. 

In another part of the webinar, various survivor stories from the Voices to End FGC project were introduced. Renee Bergstrom’s story was particularly powerful in addressing and disrupting common misconceptions about where FGC takes place and to whom. Jenny’s story portrayed the devastating silence that upholds the practice happening generation after generation; Maryah Haidery’s story explored the various psychological consequences of FGC. All were both informative and inspiring.

Mariya also spoke on the legal context of FGC in the United States, explaining and analysing the current federal legislation, while applying it to real legal cases. This was especially helpful to understand — as someone who lives outside of the US I find the state/federal separation particularly confusing — and it became much clearer how abuses of human rights, such as FGC, are able to slip through the gaps of the law.

After watching the webinar, I found it indisputably apparent that there are neither sufficient federal nor state laws to effectively uphold the work against FGC in the United States, and absolutely appalling that not even every state has legislation against the practice (with only 6/7 states having comprehensive laws against FGC). Though I understand that criminalisation of FGC is by no means the only, or most effective, way of ending the practice, I think it is important in taking a clear (and sometimes symbolic) stance against FGC with coherent legislation that automatically supports the work of activists and survivors to stop FGC in different countries. Alongside this, it also helps families who are doubtful of the benefits of FGC for their daughters have a legitimate reason not to carry out the procedure while not having to outright stand against the rules of their cultures and communities. 

I found it especially inspiring to hear from Mariya how Sahiyo’s work has been instrumental in passing state laws; most recently, and successfully, in Massachusetts. Sahiyo is now engaged in similar work to pass a state law in Connecticut, one of the ten remaining states without any legal protections against FGC whatsoever. I think focusing on the progress that has been made definitely provides effective encouragement to keep working for change.

It was similarly uplifting to learn that the Voices Projects have resulted in survivors feeling a sense of empowerment and a surge of desire for collective action, as well as experiencing a strong sense of comradery with other storytellers. This embodies what inspires and impresses me most about Sahiyo: not only are they doing crucial work to end FGC and stop future generations of girls, women and others from having to undergo the practice, but they also have an important focus on supporting those that have already been through it. Listening to the stories of these survivors conveys clearly how successful this parallelled approach is.

Interestingly, in Sahiyo’s study of 400 Dawoodi Bohra women, which found that 80% of the  women had been cut, 81% also said that they didn’t want the practice to continue into the next generation. FGC is a social norm that has been justified, with silence being a key part of why it has continued. I now understand how telling these stories breaks the silence and takes the conversation out of hidden, private spheres and into the public one. Mariya spoke of particularly relevant research that found when it comes to social norms and culture change, if 25% of a community changes or adopts a new norm, then it becomes wide scale enough for permanent change to occur.

Mariya concluded her talk by discussing Sahiyo’s various other programs, such as Thaal Pe Charcha, Bhaiyo, Sahiyo Activist Retreat, and Community Education and Outreach, all of which have had substantial success in supporting FGC survivors and raising awareness. It was clear by the end of the webinar how essential the services Sahiyo provide are to survivors alongside the wider communities, and what an integral role they play in worldwide efforts to stop FGC.

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